Uncover the Power of Your Story

I have a theory that keeps running through my head.  It is based both in self compassion and growth and […]
Wendy Jones
December 29, 2019

I have a theory that keeps running through my head.  It is based both in self compassion and growth and goes like this:

When we are younger, we learn big things… how to talk, play, and relate with others, we find out what we are good at, and what we can do with those talents. Most of us follow a similar path with school, friends, and relationships, and paint the canvas of our life with big broad strokes. If we keep it within the navigational beacons, (thanks to my brother in law for coining that phrase) many of us get to a similar point in life.  As we get older though, little cracks start to form in our canvas and affect our daily life patterns and relationships, in large part because our subconscious patterns, that we haven’t taken any time to become aware of, begin to chip away at the days that once seemed so simple. The good news is, we get to make the decision anytime along the way, to acquire a finer paintbrush, and use it to create the little strokes that lead to greater self awareness. This is the brush that fills in these little cracks that have formed on the canvas of our life. If we do the work, we lead a more connected and expansive life. If we choose not to, the cracks weaken us and we end up living a much smaller existence just to survive it all. It’s up to us to decide if we want to go from the school art project that our mom hung on the fridge to a beautiful scene or landscape worthy of a great gallery. Contrary to what society or social media might led us to believe, that great gallery isn’t reserved for the most popular, but for those who decide to take on the challenge of knowing themselves better and uncovering the power of their story. It’s a brave process and sometimes painful in the short term, but as we have the courage to work through it, I believe we always come out better for it. Each of us is so unique, yet we also desire so much to connect and belong together. The only way to find that deep connection with others is to find it first within yourself by discovering your own uniqueness and the strength that lies within it. 

In 2020, I am growing my life design coaching to include curriculum that helps people uncover the power of their own story.  We each have unique gifts, the powers I have uncovered for myself in this process the last few years are the strength in my calm demeanor, and my ability to disarm and create genuine safety in conversations with others.  Uncovering these strengths and not being afraid to acknowledge them, and then learn to use them to help others, has been an empowering process.  As I build out a coaching curriculum that includes aspects of mind, body, and spirit, I can help people uncover the power of their own story to help them realize the path to their fullest reality.

Mind - Relationships, parenting, transitions, patterns of limiting beliefs; these are among my favorite runways to explore. Do you want to work on your relationship with yourself or others? Is there a transition, whether a new job, a move, or the beginning or ending of a relationship in your life?  Are you trying to create a happier, more productive home with your children? I have experience in all of these areas and a non judgmental listening ear.

Body -  Sleep, Nutrition, Movement, Recovery...they are all part and parcel of a healthy life.  Are you looking to feel better, lighter, or more fit in 2020.  All of these major areas of health in our lives can be broken down into small manageable steps that lead to a sustainable game plan to a healthier, happier you and there are practical tools to make this process successful. 

Spirit - Our spirit is about connecting with things that we cannot see but can definitely feel If we are open to it.  Are you blocking the good things in life that are yours with negative energy? Are you speaking to yourself in a way that affirms your best life? Do you recognize a power in the universe that is bigger than yourself? Connecting to something greater than us is one of the most compassionate ways to view your own story.  

Life is not happening to you, it’s happening for you.

Your self awareness is the key to unlock your fullest potential and 2020 is all about your vision being clear. You have all of the answers, but sometimes it helps to have a fresh look at the situation to understand where your mind might be getting stuck.  A coaching session with me is a calm place where my clients are free to dialogue about where they are today, where they want to go, and what, if anything, is standing in their way.  I use my trained, non judgmental ear to help you discover more about yourself and the answers that work for you.  Sometimes it’s the tiniest brush strokes on our canvas that make the biggest change in our picture.  I understand that safety and belonging are among our most important needs as human beings and strive to provide that environment in each coaching session. 

If you want to uncover the power of your own story in 2020, click here.  Here’s to staying present but also to the excitement about all this new decade has to offer any of us willing to put in the work.

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About the author:
Wendy Jones is a mother of four, lifelong athlete, writer, and optimism & resilience coach and speaker. Through 20 years of parenting and relationship struggles, she believes that vulnerability and our willingness to share our stories is a way to heal ourselves

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